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Just a quick reminder that tomorrow, we're starting our Hour a Day Challenge.  We are going to work on our homes for one concentrated hour every single day.  You in?

:: THIS WEEK'S DAILY TO DO LIST ::

For Memory...

"Do nothing from rivalry or conceit,
but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.
Let each of you look not only to his own interests,
but also to the interests of others."

(Philippians 2:2-4)

For Every Day...

Morning To Do List :: {if all else fails, I'll try to do this list every day....even if it takes all day!}
--Quiet time
--Drink water
--Exercise
--Pack lunches
--Make bed
--Shower, dressed, make-up, hair
--Start laundry
--Clean up kitchen and dishes
--Wipe up bathrooms
--Water plants
--Put water bottles in fridge

Afternoon To Do List :: {this will help my day go a whole lot smoother}
--Drink water
--Take vitamin
--Finish and fold laundry
--Early dinner prep
--Update checkbook
--Quick clean-up
--Fix dinner
--Kitchen and dishes cleaned up

For this week...

Weekly To Do List :: {this includes my weekly housecleaning}
~Day 1 :: trash and recycling; clean purse
~Day 2 :: weekly cleaning tasks (ie. vacuum, dust, mop, bathrooms, mirrors, appliance fronts)
~Day 3 :: files and paperwork 
~Day 4 :: wash sheets; wash delicate laundry; make next week's menu; make grocery list
~Day 5 :: catch-up on any tasks I've missed during the week
~Day 6 :: calendar planningclip and file couponsgrocery pre-list (I do these on the weekend)

Monthly To Do List ::  {if I miss something this week, I'll catch it next month}
Master bedroom
~Day 1 :: remove obvious clutter - For some reason, the master bedroom easily becomes a clutter zone.  We think we'll set something down until we have the time to put it away properly. Then, we start working on the laundry and realize we'll never, ever have the time to put things away properly.  Let's make the time today!  

~Day 2 :: baseboards and dusting - Winter has left a layer of dust everywhere.  A quick, dry cloth to the baseboards will help us remember their original color (who knew they weren't naturally grey?) The furniture could use a wipe-down, too.

~Day 3 :: windows - There is some sort of science project growing on my window ledges.  A very gross science project.  The damp and dark of winter is giving way to the breezy and bright of spring.  It's time to destroy the crud that built up on the windows over the winter so we can enjoy the view without cringing.  

~Day 4 :: sort clothes - With warmer weather here, it's a good time to pull out the short-sleeves, pack away the long-sleeves, and get rid of the clothes we wouldn't be caught dead in.  Oh, we could also get rid of those items that make fun of the fact that we're no longer the same size we were in high school.  They aren't kind and shouldn't be allowed to hang around. 

~Day 5 :: closet clutter - That clutter that gets piled on the bedroom floor (see Day 1), often migrates to the bedroom closet.  Ahhh, the joy of looking into the closet without looking around  a bunch of stuff that doesn't belong there.

Remember, after this post goes up each weekend, you can easily access a printable version all week long by simply clicking the To-Do List tab at the top of the page (see it up there?). 

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There is something that drives me absolutely nuts. It makes me want to gnash my teeth and say things I'll regret. It annoys me to no end.

It's when my kids wander into the room and say they're bored.

Drives. me. crazy.

I usually reply with some comment about the number of tasks on my To Do List and how they are welcome to do a few of those to fill their time.

They generally respond by rolling their eyes and mumbling something under their breath that we're both pretty sure I shouldn't hear. Then they go someplace else to mope instead.

It's always a real bonding moment.

Lately, I've been getting that same bored feeling as my kids.

I've been noticing a not-sure-what-to-do-with-myself kind of feeling coming over me a lot, which is strange since I have so many things to do all the time. But for some reason, it seems like I'm doing a lot of wandering.

I'll go into my room to fold some laundry....I'll check my email while I'm standing there....I'll lose interest in the laundry and carry a glass into the kitchen....I'll start to unload the dishwasher....I'll peek at facebook....I'll look for something else to do and leave the half-empty dishwasher for later....I'll start to pick up the newspaper....I'll stop to look up the book I wanted to order online....round and round the hamster wheel.

I leave tasks half done. I give chores half my attention. I work with half my effort.

I have an unsettled feeling.

I find myself looking for excuses to get out of doing what needs done. I search for conversation online, and I fill my time with unproductive (and unimportant) activities.

Then, when the day is coming to an end, I race around like a crazy person, trying to make the house look like I actually did something with my time that day. And while our home may look somewhat presentable, my list of things I wanted to do lays untouched.

I'm annoyed because I can't seem to get anything done, but it's really all my fault (even more annoying). I'm not guarding my time from the things that suck it dry. I'm giving into every single temptation and then complaining when I suffer the consequences.

It's time to take real action.

I thought that by setting some general goals for managing my time wisely, I could change this frustrating trend in my life.

I thought wrong.

It's too easy to ignore my own good intentions. If I really want to develop better homemaking skills, then I need to make better use of my time. I need to set a measurable goal that will give me a little kick on the backside every day.

An hour a day is a good place to start.

I've decided to challenge myself to spend one hour on concentrated house-type work every single day. No excuses. No getting sidetracked. No slacking off.

Now, I'm pretty sure that, even with my aimless wandering, I'm doing more than just one hour of work around my house already, but the quality of my work is greatly lacking. And my attitude toward it just plain stinks.

It's tempting to set a loftier goal, like organizing everything that doesn't jump out of my way, or making the kids' rooms look magazine-ready, or finally getting rid of every inch of clutter.

But those goals can't easily be measured and are likely to be forgotten after a couple of days.

I think I can manage one hour. And, hopefully, that one hour will help propel me into more action throughout the day.

An hour-a-day guidelines.

Self-discipline isn't one of my strong suites. So, while I'm trying not to set too many rules for my hour-a-day challenge, I do need a few guidelines to keep me from getting off track:

~The hour each day can be broken into shorter segments, but those shorter times must be spent doing concentrated work. In other words, no checking anything online while working.

~Use a timer to help stay focused and track the time. No cheating.

~May use one fifteen-minute block for doing a Morning Routine, but the rest of the time should be spend on other tasks. (If you don't already have one, check out how to make a simple a Morning To Do List.)

~Complete Daily To-Do List tasks first. I make a weekly plan for managing a home by doing small daily tasks, but that plan only works if it's actually followed. Go figure! No more procrastinating the chores that have been scheduled.

~Work early whenever possible. Try to get most of the hour of work out of the way while it's still early. More energy equals more effective effort and more momentum to carry throughout the day. Also, doing an hour of housework when dinner should be on the stove isn't going to solve any problems.

I'm offering a challenge and some accountability.

I'm challenging myself to spend one full hour each day doing what I'm called to do, and I'm challenging you, too.

Next week, let's commit ourselves to turning over a new leaf. Let's dare ourselves to discover what happens when we set our minds to something worthwhile. Let's see what we can accomplish in one good hour of hard work.

And let's give ourselves some accountability. I need it. Remember? Self-discipline isn't exactly my thing. Let's encourage and push each other to keep up our efforts.

I'm going to be tweeting about my progress, sharing what I've accomplished on Facebook, and snapping pics on Instagram.

Want to join me?

This weekend, I'll post next week's Daily To Do List {Weekly Plan} so you can see what I'm going to be working on and, possibly, follow along, too. You may want to subscribe so you don't miss the excitement. (Yes, I'm joking about the excitement, but you still may want to subscribe.)

And I hope you'll follow, and like, and look so we can do this thing together. I'm a little bit nervous that I'm drumming up this hype and then might lose interest mid-week. I do that sort of thing. It would help to know that I'm not alone here.

So, want to join my challenge? Let's chat in the comments...

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:: THIS WEEK'S DAILY TO DO LIST ::

For Memory...

"Whom have I in heaven but you?
And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you.
My flesh and my heart may fail,
but God is the strength of my heart
and my portion forever."

(Psalm 73:25-26)

For Every Day...

Morning To Do List :: {if all else fails, I'll try to do this list every day....even if it takes all day!}
--Quiet time
--Drink water
--Exercise
--Pack lunches
--Make bed
--Shower, dressed, make-up, hair
--Start laundry
--Clean up kitchen and dishes
--Wipe up bathrooms
--Water plants
--Put water bottles in fridge

Afternoon To Do List :: {this will help my day go a whole lot smoother}
--Drink water
--Take vitamin
--Finish and fold laundry
--Early dinner prep
--Update checkbook
--Quick clean-up
--Fix dinner
--Kitchen and dishes cleaned up

For this week...

Weekly To Do List :: {this includes my weekly housecleaning}
~Day 1 :: trash and recycling; clean purse
~Day 2 :: weekly cleaning tasks (ie. vacuum, dust, mop, bathrooms, mirrors, appliance fronts)
~Day 3 :: files and paperwork 
~Day 4 :: wash sheets; wash delicate laundry; make next week's menu; make grocery list
~Day 5 :: catch-up on any tasks I've missed during the week
~Day 6 :: calendar planningclip and file couponsgrocery pre-list (I do these tasks on the weekend)

Monthly To Do List ::  {if I miss something this week, I'll catch it next month}
Living room, stairs, hall
~Day 1 :: living room clutter - Somehow, newspapers, books, magazines, legos, and video games always seem to litter the living room.  At least for one day, those things will be sorted and either put away or thrown away.  Boy, won't that be nice!

~Day 2 :: living room baseboards - A winter's worth of dust needs wiped off the baseboards.  A simple dry cloth or a vacuum cleaner fitted with the furniture brush will do the job.

~Day 3 :: stairs and hall clutter - Stuff gets piled on our stairs and in our upstairs hall.  Drives me crazy!  Today, let's put the "stuff" away or give it the 'ol boot!

~Day 4 :: stairs and hall baseboards - Just like in the living room earlier this week, the baseboards on the stairs and in the hall (upstairs and down) will be cleaned quickly with a dry cloth or the furniture brush on the vacuum. 

~Day 5 :: vacuum stairs and hall - At my house, the steps and upstairs hall only get vacuumed occasionally.  This is their lucky day!

Remember, after this post goes up each weekend, you can easily access a printable version all week long by simply clicking the To-Do List tab at the top of the page (see it up there?). 

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We've spent some time talking about why we should menu plan, and I've shown you how to make a menu. Now, let's talk about the only right method  of menu planning.

Um.

Just joking! There are probably dozens of different time frames and menu planning methods. The possibilities are endless. My basic menu planning how-to could be used to implement any of these methods or use with any of these tools.

Here are some ideas to get you started and help you figure out what works for you.....

TIME FRAMES

~Weekly planning - This is probably the easiest way to plan. In the end, it is also probably the most time consuming because it requires a few minutes every single week. I usually plan for just one week at a time because I just haven't gotten in gear to do it for longer.

~Bi-weekly planning - This method saves a little time, and it sometimes happens naturally. Often, when I'm planning for just one week, I'll think of more meals than I have room for, so I'll fill them into the following week's calendar.

~Monthly planning - This is my preferred time-frame for menu planning. I'm always glad when I've planned for the entire month. I even figured out how to juggle a monthly menu with our irregular schedule. So, don't ask me why I don't do this every month. I've got issues. Clearly.

~Seasonal planning - Some people like to plan for every individual season (winter, summer, etc.). They either plan out three entire months of meals for each quarter, or they make a one-month plan that they repeat for three months. One benefit of this is that you could simply save the seasonal plan and use it year after year.

SPECIAL METHODS

~Certain types of food - When planning a menu, it can be helpful to schedule certain types of food on particular days. For example, we regularly have soup on Tuesdays because my husband might make it home from work in time for dinner that day. He enjoys soups, and it isn't something that will be wasted if he ends up working late. I also have days that I tend to schedule homemade pizza, pasta, and pancakes for dinner.

~Certain cuisines - You could schedule Mexican food on Mondays, Italian on Tuesdays, etc. I've never tried this, but it sounds sort of fun.

~Same meals, same days - I know that some families are happy to have the exact same meals on the exact same days every week. You know....tacos on Monday, spaghetti on Tuesday, Chili on Wednesday, etc. My family would mutiny. I guess I follow this method a little bit by planning certain foods on certain days (see above), but I don't think I could use the exact same plan every single week. To each his own, right?

~Two week rotation - I've also heard of using a combination of some of these methods by making a one week plan that gets repeated for two weeks in a row. I can see how this could save time and money by only needing to spend planning time twice a month and allowing for stocking up on items that will be used for both weeks.

SPECIAL TOOLS

~Once a Month Cooking - There are people who do once-a-month cooking for the freezer.  Those people are my heroes.  My friend Kayse even shared how she made 112 meals in one day.  Uhh...wow! Sometime, I'm finally going to figure out how to do that whole freezer-cooking thing to make menu planning easy as pie.  Jami totally made me believe it's possible with her 7 easy steps to planning a freezer cooking day.

~Cookbooks - Some cookbooks come with pre-planned menus.  In the past, I've used the book Saving Dinner to give me seasonal menu ideas, although I've never used it for complete menu plans (that's just not me).  I've also heard that my friend Leigh Ann's book 20-Minute Meals comes with some menu plans.  I've not read it yet, but I will soon (it came with my Ultimate Homemaking eBook Bundle). I honestly can't wait to try some of the recipes because I've seen her dinner pictures.  Yum. 

~Plan to Eat - This is the thing I'm most excited about.  I just signed up for a free trial of Plan to Eat, and I'm so anxious to try it out! You can use it to store your recipes, plan your meals, and generate shopping lists. You can even use the grocery list right from your smart phone...which I don't have...but if I did...just sayin'. This could really save me a lot of time and money once I learn all of the special features.  

Alright, now it's your turn to share.  What are some special methods, systems, or tools you use to make a menu plan?  Please share in the comments!  

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I've been menu planning since baggy jeans were in style. Yes, my friends, I've been at this gig a long, long time.

But at the beginning of my marriage, I didn't do any meal planning.

I also didn't go much cooking.

Or laundry.

Or dusting or vacuuming.

Ahhh....those were the days....

I suppose it was after we had a kid and started spending more time at home that I began to plan our meals each week. We didn't have any extra money to spare, and I needed to know the exact items to buy at the store so I didn't waste a single penny.

Well, it's eighty-three years later (give or take a few years), and I'm still planning. There are lots of reasons why I menu plan, and it has become one of the most valuable tasks I do.

My "system" for menu planning is pretty basic. I don't want you to think this is a long, drawn out process of jumping through the right hoops every week. It only takes a few minutes each time, and the more you do it, the easier it will become.

Also, it doesn't matter if you plan for one week (what I usually do), one month (what I wish I did), an entire season, or something in between. The basic steps are still the same. Of course, if you've never done much menu planning, you should probably stick to doing one or two weeks at a time until you get comfortable with the process.

HOW TO MAKE A MENU PLAN:

This is my process for planning our dinner meals. At this stage in our family life, I simply have a basic list of breakfast and lunch suggestions (listed on my Menu Plan Monday posts), unless I expect us to all be home on a particular day. If you will benefit from planning specific items for the other meal in the week, just follow these same steps for each category.

A. Make a list of possible meals.

On a scrap piece of paper, I jot down at least seven meals (or however many I need to fill my menu, plus a couple more when possible). I follow this order:

1. Meals that weren't used from last week's menu.

2. Requests or special occasions. (This is rare for us.)

3. Meals that can be made mostly by "shopping" the refrigerator, freezer, or pantry.

4. Inexpensive staple meals (spaghetti, beans and rice, homemade pizza, soups, etc.).

5. Meals using what's on sale in the grocery ads or by using coupons.

B. Schedule the meals to specific days.

Some people might be happy to keep the above list posted and casually choose what's for dinner each morning. That's what I do when we're on a staycation. But on a normal week, I schedule the meals to the days they will fit best. Things always get switched around, but it helps me to have a plan to follow.

For scheduling the menu, you can use an actual calendar, an iPad (or iPhone) app, or even a piece of paper with the days listed down the side. I usually opt for the paper or an app.

1. Plug in any meals that are needed on a particular day or for a special occasion (birthdays, husband's day off, company coming, etc.).

2. Assign easy meals to busy days.

3. Fill in the blanks with the rest of the meals, keeping that week's scheduled activities in mind.

4. Tweak or rearrange, as needed. Be sure it makes sense (ie. the meatball subs are scheduled two days after spaghetti-and-meatballs).

5. List extra meals, when possible. It can be helpful to have a couple of ideas for back-up meals, just in case a day falls apart. These extra meals can be put on the plan next week if they aren't used.

C. Follow the plan, but don't be too rigid.

Remember that this is just a plan. It's a tool. Use it however it best serves your family.

I rarely ever follow my menu plan exactly. If we have unexpected leftovers, the plan changes. If we get home really late after a ball game or I'm especially tired, the plan changes. If my husband orders pizza so I don't have to cook, the plan changes (and I do a happy dance).

And that's alright.

Any meals that get bumped off this week will be moved to the next, and the cycle will begin again.

Round and round.

Probably until baggy jeans are back in style.

But we should all hope that isn't any time soon.

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Okay. It's confession time....again.

I really don't enjoy menu planning.

There. I said it.

Since I told you I was going to spend some time this week talking about meal planning and how I do it, I thought you should know that it isn't something I like. It's something I do because I need to. It's a "must-do" not a "want-to-do" for me.

Sometimes I feel the same way about cooking dinner, too. I love to cook, but not so much at the end of the day. Or after a baseball game when I really wish the kids were in bed instead of circling the kitchen like vultures. Much of the time, I'd rather order a pizza.

I just don't want you to think that menu planning is something only perfect people do. The fact that I do it sort of shoots down that theory. Planning meals ahead of time actually helps cover up some of my imperfections. It makes me look a little more put-together than I am.

So, lets think about some good reasons to menu plan....

- My number one reason is that it saves money. It keeps me from buying unnecessary groceries, and it helps me not step foot inside the store mid-week. Because what self-respecting woman can walk into a grocery store and leave with just the one item she went in for?!?

- It makes me more efficient, which also saves money. I can plan on using what I already own, which means fewer items on my shopping list and less food being wasted.

- It saves me from thinking. I don't have to trudge into the kitchen every single day and try to come up with some brilliant meal idea for that evening. Anything that rescues me from thinking gets a thumbs-up from me.

- It allows me to plan around our crazy schedule. It gives me a chance to glance at what's going on for the week and write in meals that will fit the time (and energy) I'll have for cooking.

- It keeps us away from fast food or take-out (another money saver). As tempting as it is to grab dinner out, my menu calls me back home empty-handed.

- It makes us healthier. I feel guilty if I don't plan some sort of vegetable into our meals. That guilt means my kids often eat peas on the nights I fix pancakes for dinner. Peas with pancakes might sound gross, but it's on the plan. Don't argue with the plan, man.

- It opens the door to variety. I say it "opens the door" because it doesn't guarantee variety; it just encourages it. The whole guilt-thing that forces me to add in some veggies also limits how many times I can serve pasta in a week. Without my menu plan, I would likely serve it every couple of days. Because it's easy and I'm lazy.

- It tells me what I need to do. Since I know what's for dinner, I know what I should do ahead of time to be prepared. I can thaw out meat, make chicken stock, or mix up bread. I don't have to wait until the last minute, only to discover that I've run out of time.

- And finally, it gives me an easy answer when my kids say, "What's for dinner?" Am I the only one whose kids ask that question several times every day? I think they have a scheduled rotation so they can take turns asking (and re-asking) once every hour.

I'm pretty sure there are more good reasons for menu planning, and I'm pretty sure I can't think of any of them right now.

So, how about it you take over? Share the reasons you menu plan (or wish you did) in the comments....

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