
When someone finds out that I homeschool, they usually ask three questions.
-What about socialization?
-Do your kids have to be tested, or does someone have to approve your curriculum?
-Why did you decide to homeschool?
Over the course of these ongoing HOMESCHOOL 101 posts, I'll likely get to all of these questions. But for starters, I thought I'd begin with that last question. It's too big to answer it completely right now, so I'm going to give you one of the most important reasons to me, the mom: I want my kids to like reading good books.
When my oldest son was a preschooler he loved books. I would check-out stacks of books on a variety of subject and just have them around. It warmed my heart to see him there, propped up on his elbows, looking at books on the planets, airplanes, Alexander the Great. He learned to read very early, and he enjoyed the world it opened up for him....until he went to school.
Then, reading was something you did for school. Reading for fun was no longer fun. It broke my heart. When we decided after his first grade year to make the leap into homeschooling, restoring his love for books was one of my top priorities. I'm happy to report that I've been successful. Christopher, and all of my kids, love books (again). We usually have more than one hundred library books on our shelves at a time. My kiddos regularly beg me to take them to the library, which I would gladly to do every day if they didn't want to spend hours there each time!
Whether you already homeschool, are thinking about homeschooling, or think I must be crazy to even bring up the subject, you most likely want your kids to read. This summer is the perfect time to start encouraging your kids to pick up some good books. Not only will it help beat the "summer's getting boring blues", but it can open up a world of information and adventure.
Here's some pointers to encourage your children's love of books:
-Go to the library a lot, and check-out lots (and lots) of books. It doesn't matter if people look at you like you're strange. It doesn't matter if it takes you five trips to get all of those bags of books to the car. It's worth it. Trust me.
-Encourage your kids to find out about what interests them through books. My kids regularly check out books on pirates and knights, baseball cards and basketball teams, ballet and drawing, guinea pigs and horses. You name it, they've read a book about it. Or they at least know they can, if they want to. When my kids come to me with a "why is the sky blue" or "what do tree frogs eat" kind of question, my first answer is always, "I don't know, but we can get a book about it from the library." Over their young lives, that simple reply has led them to books on many different subjects, and to many answers for their many questions.
-Get a variety of books. Non-fiction books, full of pictures, are a great way for them to enjoy science and history. Let them get books that are over their heads. It's alright. Sometimes, a photograph of an ancient pyramid really is worth a thousand words. Picture books, chapter books, books to read by themselves, and books for you to read to them. Load 'em up!
-Don't treat all books equally. Some books aren't worth the paper they're written on. I call these "junk food" books. They're no better than watching TV. Actually, I think they're worse. Our kids do not need books that are simple and dumbed down. When in doubt, stick to classics. "Honey for a Child's Heart" by Gladys Hunt is an invaluable resource for finding good books. My oldest son knows the value of a good book, and he's passing this lesson onto his younger siblings. One day, on the way to the library, Mackenzie was talking to Christopher about looking for some books to read. He told her that she should probably stick to books that were written in the 1960's and earlier. He said that "books written after that just aren't as well-written". Now, I know that isn't always the case, but he's learned the value of classic literature. Yea!
-Sign up for your library's summer reading program. Whether your kids are toddlers or teenagers, they can likely sign up for a fun and motivating reading program. The kiddos get prizes for the time they spend reading books themselves or being read to. My kids enjoy filling up their charts with the many hours they spend with their books.
-Look for books on CD (at the library, of course). We listened to the "Chronicles of Narnia" books this way. We still need to finish the last couple of books, and this summer will be the perfect time. Since my husband is often at work during dinner time, I'll put on a CD while we eat. It can continue to play while I'm washing the dishes and cleaning up the kitchen. It makes for a relaxing and enjoyable experience for us all. This is also a good way to tame dinner-time trouble. Who wants to complain, act silly, or fight when Aslan is walking off into the woods with the White Witch? Not me!
I hope these ideas will get you started this summer. And I hope you'll continue to join me in the homeschooling discussions. As my summer break starts soon, I'll hopefully write more about why we do it, how we do it, and where to start if you want to do it, too.
Find more helpful summer ideas over on Works for Me Wednesday.
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