sick of sick

Alright. I really don’t like to complain (sort of), but I’ve been sick since a couple days before Christmas. It began as a cold, started to go away, came back as something much worse, almost went away again, and now is hanging around just enough to annoy me.

Most mornings I feel almost normal, but by the afternoons my ears are plugged up, my head is foggy, and I don’t seem to have much sense of taste. Is that bad?

Anyway, this lingering fog is making me feel even more behind than I normally do. There are a few things that I really NEED to get done, but I just can’t seem to find the time and energy in the same instant. Those tasks are like heavy weights on my shoulders. They call to me when I’m trying to rest and condemn me if I dare to relax. They make me feel stressed and tired. They rob me of the peace I crave.

These overdue tasks must be done. This week. No excuses.

I’m ready to attack. I may need to get up early or work late. I might have to order take-out for dinner or let the regular housecleaning duties slide. Whatever I need to do, it’s time to get back to that ordinary month I was so excited about.

Sick or not, today is the day!

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31 days to {a better} ordinary :: day 31 ~ an ordinary purpose



I can’t believe this 31 days series is coming to a close. Has it really been a month already? I feel like I’ve gotten a great jump start toward a better ordinary….but I also feel like I have a long way to go.

I’m not a particularly patient person. I want my problems and difficulties solved and taken care of immediately. Like yesterday. Unfortunately, that’s just not how life works for me. Change is a process, not an event.

I’m still working to achieve the changes I desire, but at least I’m working on them. Many of the topics I wrote about take constant effort on my part. I have to be intentional with making my calendar and weekly lists. I have to force myself to do my weekly cleaning (one of my greatest weaknesses). I must continually think about keeping up with the laundry or cleaning out the refrigerator.

And there are several things that I still need to implement, such as making a better master grocery list, writing my meal list, and starting my monthly menu plan. Hmmm……I guess I know what I’m doing with the rest of the week.

But the biggest change over the past few weeks has taken place in my attitude. I look at things differently. Instead of thinking about short-term cleaning or organizing, I find myself figuring out long-term solutions. I’m learning that changes that are backed up with routines become lasting improvements.

Suddenly, there’s a greater purpose in tasks like organizing the kids’ clothes or cleaning out my purse (two things that desperately need my attention). They are worth doing because I’m going to fix the problems rather than simply straighten them. That ordinary purpose will, hopefully, continue to make a better ordinary for me and my family.

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31 days to {a better} ordinary :: day 30 ~ do it now



Most of the time, my husband is a master of the do-it-now principle. If something needs cleaned, if a phone call needs made, or if a bill needs paid he likes to get it done right away. No waiting. No planning. No thinking about it (or having to remember it).

I, on the other hand, am not so disciplined with the concept. For example, two days ago I noticed that there’s a ridiculous amount of crumbs under the edges of my kitchen cabinets. Instead of quickly grabbing a broom, I thought, I really should sweep this floor later. I’m embarrassed to admit that the crumbs are still there.

Sure, it’s good to prioritize what gets done in the day and to work on what’s most important. But there are many times that I put off simple little tasks that could be taken care of quickly and easily. If I want my ordinary days to flow more smoothly, I need to do it now. Not later. Why wait?

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31 days to {a better} ordinary :: day 25 ~ the always clean car



For the first time in my adult life, my car has been clean for more than two whole weeks. I can’t believe it. You can go ahead and applaud, if you wish. It really is an amazing feat.

And it’s been easy. Too easy. It’s been so easy to keep it clean that I find myself asking why I didn’t make the effort sooner.

We started by cleaning out my mini-van and making a place for everything that needed kept in there. Restaurant coupons go in the glove box (and need regularly sorted through!), CD’s are stored in the center compartment, coins are in one of the drink holders. The phone chargers and ice scrapers also found homes. Everything else had to go, including the miscellaneous junk that had found its way into the pouches in the back, the cut-outs in the doors, and that empty space between the driver and passenger seats.

And now, every time I get out of the van I grab whatever doesn’t belong in there. Every. Single. Time. It must take all of three seconds. Like I said, it’s almost too easy. When I pick up my purse, I quickly glance around for trash or anything that belongs in the house. I remind the kids to do the same thing in the back.

Peace. That’s what I feel when I get into my car several times a day. Well, I feel as much peace as is possible when I’m running like a crazy person to get anywhere on time. But I’ll take whatever peace I can get. It’s a lovely thing.

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31 days to {a better} ordinary :: day 24 ~ laundry routine

Laundry is my nemesis. I battle against it constantly, but it just keeps on coming back. It never ends. Never. Never ever.



There are bunches of different methods for managing laundry. I know. I’ve tried many of them over the years. The ages of my kids, the seasons of life (and sports), our schedule, and my mood all have an effect on how I keep up with the wash. Right now I’m working with a system that seems to be the best yet.

I try to wash one to two loads of laundry each day (none on my husband’s days off, if possible). On a regular day, I aim to do one load of clothes (either lights or darks) and one load of towels or sheets, as needed. I find that by doing just a little bit of laundry everyday, we no longer run out of clean clothes, and I’m still able to get it all folded (I’m working on the putting-it-away part).



Another key to my laundry method is that I start the process the night before. In the evening, I have the kids gather their dirty clothes from the hamper in their bathroom and the laundry basket in each of their rooms. I sort their clothes into the two baskets I keep in my closet. My husband and I use a blue basket for collecting our dark clothes, a white one for lights, and a mesh-bag hamper for towels. We (usually) sort our clothes and towels right when we take them off or finish using them.



Once everything is sorted, I put whichever load appears to need done into the washer. In the morning, it’s ready for me to add the soap and turn the machine on. Without even trying, my morning routine gets a quick jumpstart. Gotta love that kind of ordinary.

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31 days to {a better} ordinary :: day 20 ~ find solutions

There’s a little game we play at our house. It’s called WE’VE GOTTA CLEAN THE GARAGE.
Here’s how you can play, too:

1. Let the garage become a total mess so that you trip over the junk every time you get out of your mini-van (can be played with any model of car or truck).
Wait until you are completely frustrated and say (in an irritated voice),

WE’VE GOTTA CLEAN THE GARAGE.

2. Begin filling the garbage cans with trash that never should have been kept in the first place. Be sure to rationalize why you’re keeping the jars of screws and crusted paintbrushes you won’t use.

That’s half the fun.

3. Finish up by piling and shoving everything that’s left back into buckets, boxes, and shelves.


4. Feel good that the garage looks clean.

Then, just sit back and wait a few weeks until the fake clean wears off so you can play the game again.

Fun!

We need to stop cleaning our problems and start solving them.
We must figure out why the various areas of our homes refuse to stay clean and clear.
Then find a solution.

Think…..

:: How do we use this space?
:: Why do I keep these things in this particular closet (or cabinet, drawer, shelf, etc.)?
:: Is it too hard to put this away when we’re done using it?
:: Is there a more logical way to organize these items?
:: Do I need better organizing tools (baskets, boxes, jars)?
:: Is there a place for everything so everything can be put back in its place?
:: Can I get rid of stuff?

The last time we played WE’VE GOTTA CLEAN THE GARAGE,
we began a process of changing the rules.

We trashed a lot of things we admitted we wouldn’t use. We organized and grouped things together in an orderly way. We put stuff we don’t often use into the attic, and we boxed and labeled other items we want access to, but only need occasionally.

That was a couple of weeks ago, and the garage still looks as good as the day we cleaned it. We have a long way to go, but we’re getting closer to solutions for
the garage, the pantry, the laundry room…..on and on.

We’re creating {a better} ordinary, and, hopefully, we’ll be able to keep it that way.

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Morning To Do

Quiet time
Drink water
Dressed, make-up, hair
Make bed
Kitchen and dishes
Wipe up bathrooms
Start laundry
Water plants
Early meal prep

Weekly To Do

Calendar planning
Clip/file coupons
Grocery pre-list
Weekly housecleaning
Trash and recycling
Wash sheets
Library
Make menu/grocery list
Grocery shopping
Clean purse

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